Just one at a time

So many times we try to be "the guy", who tries to find the answer for life. We set kick ass (sorry the language!) goals. We plan. We work hard on them. We do anything to make it happen. We want to succeed. And there is nothing wrong in that. Don't get me wrong here, setting goals make life more interesting. It motivates us. Pushes us to take the next step. I want to see people succeed. I want to see people fullfill their destinies. I think, that to see that happen, is one of the most fullfilling things for me! But, when we mess up. Or we fail, and do not get where we thought our(!) dreams would take us. That's when we fall apart! To be honest, I don't think we need to know all the answers. Just one at a time. And after that, another, that brings an other adventure. And it is not a lack of responsibility to not know all the answers at the same time. To not have it all planned out does not make us any weaker than others. In any way, it is just the way how we can live. Sometimes knowing everything at the same time might be scary and paralysing. Sometimes is just better not to know.